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Does he mean they don't O together??


I've only experienced simultaneous orgasm a handful of times in my life (as it were)

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Why can't he O in her vagina?


I don't know why... what difference does it make? I had one lover who could not come through IC because the V is too smooth. He needed the rougher stimulation of a hand. I had an older lover who knelt between my legs and stimulated himself until he was about to come and then inserted. Maybe his O is stronger when he uses his hand; my O is stronger when my V is empty (I guess because the contractions have farther to travel).


When I said "crabby," I meant I was hoping someone would find something generally positive about this scenario... whatever this man's faults and failings as a lover, his partner cannot likely call herself "sex-starved."

I'd be very interested in your opinion of the movie. But don't-- under any circumstances-- read the book. It's smarmy and awful.