Understand... how about going for a walk? Is there a bus line you can take to see the family?
Why won't they come see you? You need to surround yourself with people who support you.. that is very important.
Think about that for a minute.. .if it was sooooo important for her to file, which would she do? Go see OM, or file for D?
She's confused like all the WAS's.. she will sit on the fence and see where her "new" life takes her. It's now a waiting game. Keep being patient and I'm sure it will pay dividends for you.
Where I live there really isnt a place to go walk plus if there was, I would think of her. There really isnt a bus route either.. I really dont know why my family wont come to see me, I mean I talk to my cousins (who are like my brothers) everyday asking them if they want to hang out, sometimes they do and most of the time they dont. I really dont know why anyone else from my family wont see me. I mean I know that i need to be surrounded by possitive people but the people in my life arent so positive. Maybe you're right about the D and filing. Maybe its more important to see the OM than to file or maybe she just dont have the money to file. That's what I am going to do is wait. Being patient is really hard but I know that it may pay off.
My wife texted me tonight, she wants to know how I am doing, I said that I was good. I thought about not texting her back and staying dark but maybe she just wanted someone to talk to or maybe she really wanted to know how I am doing...any thoughts on this??
