I guess the messages don't bother me as much as dh's reaction. He is hell bent on me not assuming these have nothing to do with him. So as it stands, he is angry with me now because I am getting upset with these messages.
I am going to look into those sites. I called my cel provider and they said to forward the messages to my email so I can have documentation if I ever needed it.
Like I said, I just wish dh would have some understanding of how hurtful these are rather than trying so hard to defend himself.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!