(((BND))) Thank you for visiting my thread!! Concerning the ow, I do believe that there was an infatuation with a 30 year younger girl. And I say girl, because he had her as a student her senior year and when I approached him about the relationship with her ... he absolutely blew up and moved out the next day. When I approached him about the relationship, I just told him that I was uncomfortable, but couldn't put my finger on what I was uncomfortable with (actually, my son indicated he thought something not right was going on, but he did not know that). He continued to deny a "relationship" ... but I do know that when I went to court for my divorce he did not fight my request for full custody of both of my children. Although I do not know this for sure ... but I believe my attorney told his attorney he was going to call a few people in to court. I always have felt sad that he didn't even try to fight for shared custody of his children. Oh well.
Recently I learned through another friend who quite by accident met another woman from out of town who indicated that she had been dating my XH for the last year. This is a friend who was very shocked ... her husband works very closely with my XH and she said that absolutely no one has any idea that he is dating. However, when he learned that I had been told about this relationship ... it appears that he wants to go out of his way to make me think that he is not dating. He calls me on Friday evening and Sat. evenings to touch base on incidental things or calls my daughter and drops hints about what exactly he is doing that evening.
So I guess I wonder, why would he care what I think? Again, to me just signs of "hope". But I sure don't want to appear to be stupid!!!
