Oh she is just gross. So inappropriate!!!!! What did your in laws think of him coming? I am sick for you. She is beyond words. Dark, my friend, super sonic dark.
I would be kind to in laws from here on out, but they have to remain first and foremost loyal to their daughter. Don't trust what they say, I'm sure its uncomfortable for them as well.
Yeah... not that I care. I couldn't stand her mom anyway. She's a big reason why W is who she is. If anyone, I liked her step-dad. He was a straight shooter for the most part. Unfortunately, he let his W run the show.
It's funny... I've been in this scenario a few times in my life. Each time, I made a big change and it made my life better.
That's the other thing that ticks me off. When we were together, she always mad a big deal about keeping the D's to a schedule. Especially if we were travelling to my family or friends house with D's.
Now.. I can't get the D's to go to bed because they are used to staying up all hours because mommy has them up and running around.
I feel like my world has pretty much crashed at my feet.
I know man... but the kids are what's important now.
You're a good D#$($ father, and don't you forget it.
It does sound like it's time to go dark on her. I hope that it wakes her up a bit. No, a lot. A whole lot. Like the lights coming on at zero dark thirty.
I can still remember hearing "you're bouncing! you're bouncing!"
Don't bounce, keep your head together if you go dark. Do it right. Pay attention to detail and let her fully realize what she is missing out on.
Right there with ya bro.
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I know you and I have discussed how we like having our kids to ourselves, nothing to worry about but fun with them. Try to focus on this now, think of your W as merely your kids ride to your house, or as a babysitter, someone you need to get updates about the kids from, but anything after that isn't needed. I wouldn't outright announce "Your blatant talk of OM makes me want to vomit, stop it at once". But I would get the info on the girls, and move on quickly.
And no more flirting for the time being. She doesn't deserve it right now.
