Horrible, HOPEFUL Vulnerability

[the girl]

Hey CAT03,
I love your attitude. You are sassy. I am absolutely dying to know HOW you got pics of the naked OW? And who were you going to show them to in order to blackmail her? Is the OW a celebrity or something? LOL!

Sometimes I fantasize about revenge, but it never makes me feel as good as I think it will. The one time I got revenge when I discovered some lying, when I called the OW and screamed at her and then told her all my Hs dirty laundry, it totally reopened the affair between them. I nearly lost my marriage for that stupid half and hour of revenge. They had nearly ended it and were not speaking, just a couple of dumb texts, but after my outburst they had plenty to talk about, and an excuse to do it. Sure enough, they talked it out, then started reviving their romance. My H started to file, but then stopped, claiming that he felt incredibly sick inside.

So, here is my advice: REALIZE THAT YOUR ACT OF REVENGE WILL BRING YOUR SPOUSE AND THE OTHER PERSON TOGETHER, AGAINST YOU!

I wish I would have known that!
The Girl