trying, these days, I call him on his lies, and now I'm called a 'snooper'. LOL I don't care, he can do what he want, but I'm calling him on it when I catch him.

Sue, did he know you checked his phone, maybe that was the reason for even more anger on Sunday morning. I have dealt with the anger thing and used to try to help, ask him why he was mad at me, etc, now I just walk away. I haven't done anything to deserve his treatment of me, so I am not taking it. How rude for him to make dinner and not even let you know...

Ignore the anger, and call him out on the outright lying. You are now seeing a pattern to the previous affair right? What do you think you want to do?

So sorry about poor D3, its so hard to have sick little ones. HUGS