I am so sorry that you feel trapped. Was your wife unhappy in the UK ? Do you think she felt trapped over here? How long had she lived over in the UK before you went to the US?
One of my BIL's is English and M'd a S.African girl. They tried to settle here in the UK twice and in S.Africa once. Funnily enough it was always the S that was in their own country that was the unsettled one. In the end the emmigrated to Australia and they seem to have finally found a place they feel at home.
Where abouts in the UK did you used to be? I am in the midlands - you couldn't get more central!!!
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength