Dom, I've read a lot of your posts here and know you've seen your share. I do feel I've been getting a lot out of the books, but don't believe there is a "right" way for every situation, each one needs to be dealt with on its' own merits. I've done what I thought was best for my daughter, who is the least equipped to handle what is going on with her parents right now. I talked to her school counselor today and she'll be talking to daughter tomorrow, will call me back to report on how she feels with a third party asking about her feelings since she didn't want to talk much about it to my wife or I.
Sig should be much clearer now, thanks for noticing the lack of info.
Me:46 Her:40 Daughter:7 She Dropped Bomb:10/7/07 She Filed Papers w/State:10/30/07 I Left Home:11/11/07 I Moved Back In:11/13/07 My Outlook: I want nothing more than a future together and will do whatever it takes. Her Outlook: Been too long coming, I'm done.