Lost:

seems like you've been reading the books, but havent been getting the right stuff out of it.

Moving out, is about the worst thing you can do \:\(

PS; in your sig, you might update it to be clearer on who filed, and who moved out.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle