So.. W responded to an email that I had sent concerning D3's B-day.. she's finally getting around to reading her email.
Shouldn't have, but I snooped.
She replied to OM's Transformer email.. She said she loved him very much and it's scary how hard she has fallen for him. It's easy though seeing how well he treats her. She hopes he feels the same way?
Great conversation and good for you for letting it roll to voice mail after that. I would keep that up. Don't give her that power to play you any longer. It would be great for days on end if you could not talk and let her wonder what you were doing.
I would also let her know you aren't fine with her dating and tearing apart a family. At the point where the other spouse is filing for divorce is that the time to get tough and say what you really feel?