Originally Posted By: azhira
I wonder if he's making attempts to get closer, but I've been a bit snippy, or backed-off in response, without realizing it.

Over the weekend, xh asked me several times to stay longer at this place...even after the baby was asleep.


interesting.

On the one hand... it's "unfriendly" to turn down friendly guestures. On the other hand, you have a right to be a little cold to him, becuase of what he's doing with JD.

Maybe it's just a matter of choosing "how friendly" to be.


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I also wonder if I'm not being accepting enough of his attempts at apologies. I really need to make sure that I am actually saying "Thank you" in response.


that's always a good thing to keep in mind. good for you \:\)

'course, if he's "apologising" for something, but keeps doing it... it doesnt really count as an apology. no reason to be all thankful about stuff like that, if it happens.
call him on it.



Last edited by Dom R; 11/12/07 09:29 PM.
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