My Wife wants out..still!!

[christarn]

Wow, a lot to digest! First as everyone has already told you let go of the anger, second quit telling her that all you want is to be back to the happy family...when things were going south in my M, and my H kept telling me that, it just made me more angry. You're wife is deffinitly rebounding with the other man, right now in her eyes he seems to be Mr perfect....my theory on this, is that the grass is not greener on the other side, there is just more to mow. Usually rebound relationships only last a few months, you should deffinitly read Gone Dancing's thread about his W's relationship with her new man (rather funny!).

I think the best thing you can do for you and your kids, is to take care of you, like I said in the other thread. Besides looking at myself, when my H, really started to move on, is when I really started to want him back...that didn't click until I read the boys posting that...as usual they were correct in their theory!! Work on GAL...go to the gym, relieve your stress there, take your kids on a three day weekend, things to make her wonder!

Hope it helps, take care of yourself...and quit beating yourself up over the financial stuff, we all make mistakes!