Understand... how about going for a walk? Is there a bus line you can take to see the family?
Why won't they come see you? You need to surround yourself with people who support you.. that is very important.
Think about that for a minute.. .if it was sooooo important for her to file, which would she do? Go see OM, or file for D?
She's confused like all the WAS's.. she will sit on the fence and see where her "new" life takes her. It's now a waiting game. Keep being patient and I'm sure it will pay dividends for you.
