Everything feels so surreal to me lately. I can't believe how time has flown. I notice how depressing my posts sound lately. Things are getting better though.
Let's get busy living.
F21!!!!
First off I answered you over in Surviving which was stupid, so I decided to mosy on over here and say hey!
Why do you think that your posts sound depressing? I think they sound pretty introspective. Isn't that a good thing? You've been living in Limbo for so long, waiting on Husband to wake up, but now you're actually starting to look around and maybe even think of yourself for a change. That's all good sweetie!
You know, I understand that we all had dreams that were either missed opportunities, or we ourselves tossed them aside for another choice. It's never to late to recapture what we've lost or put on hold. That's one of the best things about being in this position. Your life certainly is far from over and the onething I feel in your sitch is that your husband really needs to have a fire lit under him or he will never have to choose.
I also found the quit claim dicussion very fishy. In a case like that it should be either or, not onething hinging on the other, but Kev's response was really the right one so I won't confuse the issue anymore.
Your vacation sounded wonderful!! I was jealous just reading about it, but not so jealous that I wasn't thrilled that you had such a great time. I think the time away helps us to refocus and it sure seems to have worked for you.
I would bet (and this is my unbiased opinion of course) that you were the best thing that ever happened to your husband. He knows it and now that you've gotten more of yourself back I think you know it too.
