To LDW's and H's with LDW's

[Kettricken]

Ok, I figure I'm Average Desire -- I love sex, but 2-3 times a week with lots of affection and tease in between is perfect -- and my response was "ick". What he's describing -- the whole scenario, not just the sex -- sounds really severely unbalanced, one sided, slavish, not like a mature adult relationship at all. Just because it favors (worships?) the female doesn't make it any less icky. IMHO.

Actually, upon re-reading, I guess it partly skeeves me out because he sounds like a total control freak. Even if it is geared toward his wife's pleasure, he's handling *everything*, from his description. Ick ick.