Long and bumpy road

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My other thread locked up and I will try and figure out how to link it.

Nothing much new here. I have found that if I go with the flow and not speak up my exdh is great. When I start to speak my mind or push him in any way he backs off.

I have a stalker. I think its OW, but dh is trying to play it off like it could be anyone.

I have been getting number blocked texts pretty much telling me that exdh is cheating on me and still talking with her. They only come when he is not here with me and last night I was getting calls with nobody else on the other line. The texts were somewhat threatning...telling me I better not tell him about them or I will regret it. They also said that she will not back off of either of us.

When I tell dh about these he gets immediately defensive. He doesn't know that I know there has been somewhat recent contact with OW. He thinks I am accusing him of something or knowing who it could be or that it could quite possibly be a 'he' and someone from my past trying to cause trouble. There was nobody in my life during our separation that would care. I have a great feeling that its OW. Dh's last text to me was saying he was sick of me assuming this has something to do with him.

Why is dh acting like this? Shouldn't he be supporting me? These are very upsetting and hurtful.

Please everyone your thoughts!!! Thanks.