Jarhead,

Yeah she said that she loved him after 4 weeks of the bomb. WTF!

I suppose it is just a waiting game now. Is she in a fog or is she really happy and will be for a long time (ever?). How do they go and live in a sh** hole of a house with furniture piled up everywhere, kids sleeping on couches and mattresses on the floor, little money and so many ways that she has dealt with the children differently(home alone, not helping with homework, not taking them out or spending time with them).

I know that she is working at the OM's Pet Store so that she can get some welfare Temporary Income. She already has food stamps and is/has got Medicare for the chilren and herself and OM has paid for some wood flooring so the kids can get in bedrooms.

It just seems the more entwined it all gets with doing up house and OM having a cell phone family plan for WAW and oldest daughter, the harder it will be for WAW to untwine from it in the future.

The WAW said she did not know herself anymore and wanted to find who she was. How can you do that when you are involved with someone else and living with them straight away? I have learnt not to try and understand, it does not compute!

Any thoughts or anyone in my sitch?

Safie - Yes I am English and in the USA and I have to write the way they do. But I wonder if they understand bollocks?

Patience, Patiience, Patience, I know. Just hate the thought of Thanksgiving and Christmas coming up. Christmas is going to be a killer not being there when children wake up.

The first times are going to be the hardest.


ME 43
WAW 39,
D13, S11, S6, D5
T:19/M:15
Bomb: 07/31/07
OM: 08/15/07
Seperated: 08/31/07