I guess I didn't realize that my thread had locked up.
Well, I've been off the boards because D3 has been sick. I didn't get a chance to get on Sat. evening and then she woke up sick on Sun.
Thing have been extremely quiet, not really in a good way though. I think I mentioned in my last thread that H has been more angry lately. That anger shows by him giving me real quick 1 or 2 word answers and that's it. On Sat. evening, H made a good dinner and the three of us ate together. We just kind of hung out at home. D3 went to bed and the two of us were sitting up watching a movie. H got up to go to bed and his phone started ringing (10:30). It rang a few times. I got upset and asked who was calling. He said it was his friend _____. He turned the ringer off on his phone, set it on the shelf and went to bed. I stayed watching tv in the living room and could hear it buzzing. I fell asleep and woke up at 11:30. As I was walking into the bedroom, his phone started buzzing again. I picked it up. It was a buddy of his, but it listed that OW had been one of the calls at 10:30. WTF??
So, on Sunday D3 woke up and was sick. H was angry and would barely talk at all. He went to work out at 8:00 am and got back at 10:00. When he got back I left to get some things for D3. He was okay with her during the day, but didn't offer to help with anything. Last night he made dinner and didn't even tell me when it was done. I eventually walked out in the kitchen to see it all done and he was eating in the dining room. Just a real butthead! Later, I asked him a question and he was silent. I just said.....H, why are you so angry with me? No answer. I just walked out of the kitchen. D3 had been laying/sleeping in our room all day and I knew she wouldn't want to go back into her own room. I set her and I up in the den with the futon. I knew I'd be up 1/2 the night with her anyway. H slept in our room alone. I didn't let D3 go to school today and took her to the dr. A little ear infection. H called us twice while we were there, one call which I was able to answer. He just asked me to call him later and let him know what we were up to. He was actually decent. I asked him what he was thinking as far as going back to visit his dad in Dec. He said that WE'D take one day off and have a Fri. & Sat. with them. He was okay with me about that trip conversation too.
I don't know where this whole thing is headed, but I'm glad I got back on the AD's. I feel a bit better today. I just keep thinking about how this A is following the exact same period of time as the last one. It started about the same time and got worse and worse around this time. I just can't tell how deep they are in this, but if OW is calling at 10:30 on a Sat. night, I feel it's a lot deeper than I want to think about. I'm just tired.
