Frequent lurker, infrequent poster ;), but a couple things caught my eye...
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Originally Posted By: CVA She asked me basically to babysit Wed night for her night out with her girlfriends.
Pet peeve of mine: You're not the babysitter, you're the father.
Puddle -- me, too. And I'm curious to know who (CVA, is it you or W) is categorizing it in this way...
And I'm with Heim on this:
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FWIW on the kids/Thanksgiving, sorry, they don't get to choose what they do, you and your W do. Plus, having them "pick parents" sounds pretty loaded to me and could cause bitterness down the road. Should be all or none, IMO. They spend the day with you or with your W. Just my 2 pennies.
CVA, your earlier comments may have just been venting here; I hope so.
Hang in there with giving W lots of space! Hope you're having a good day...
