Some encouragement for what it is worth...my D who was 18 when H left and 20 when he returned didn't speak to him for nearly a year after he moved back in...she would ignore anything he said and would only respond if I spoke to her...but now...over a year and a half later...she is doing well with her relationship with H...they watch movies together, play games, go shopping, out to eat...all the normal things they did before...it just took a long time for her to heal...and he left her alone...didn't insist she speak to him or listen to him...he accepted her feelings...gave her the space she needed...sort of like DB'ing...and eventually it all worked out...a long process but eventually it worked out...
