not wanting to", "not being in the mood", and "being incapable of", are all separate things, wouldnt you say?
It is my opinion that for LD people "not being in the mood", not wanting to", equals the LD person feeling incapable of enjoying sex.

Yes, they are different things, but tell that to most LD people. I suspect they see it as A+B=C and that is the way it is, so move on and think about something else other than sex.

Lou