W out of town for 5 days for work and got back last night. Obviously had much time to think and has come back with different behavior than when she left. We had good momentum before she left. She left very happy, would touch me, kiss me, and seemed on track to really wanting to work it out. Now it seems different. She doesnt want intimate 'pressure', is struggling with her feelings and says she may be feeling guilted into trying because she has seen all the positive changes and her feelings just arent matching up. I tried to remind her how she was acting before she left and that she must have sat around and had negative thoughts...
Anyway...I guess I'll just back off a bit. She had brought up the 'trip' deal in our 'date', but is now backing off that idea. Says she may have to go out of the country for a week after Thanksgiving again for work. I can understand her not wanting to go someplace if she's always out of town for work. To me, her work is more important than actually working on us. She had said she was willing to put 100% effort into working it out with me. I guess not.
