I've been in and out of your sitch, but I'd be very worried about her using the account like that. Even if she is putting money back in, it may be time for you to either move your primary account to a different account or have her get her own account. That just looks like a disaster in the making. Plus it has to be next to impossible for you to track these things.
She puts in every penny she spends. I only use it because I am waiting on my new check card to come in the mail. I have my own primary acct and I transfer money into the joint acct because I dont have a card for my acct. Once I get the card all of my money will be out of that acct. Why does this look like a disaster?? Currenly I only have about $200 in there...Should I transfer that to my acct and do what she is doing, put the money in as I spend it??
I have a question for ya. I know that the DBing rules say "never to give up no matter how dark it is or how bad you feel". But I just cant take it anymore, I mean I never want to give up but I feel like im fighting a losing battle. I mean she asked me if I would sign once she files and I told her to file away. Well she still hasnt yet. She tells me that we are not getting back together, she has moved on and that the divorce is going to happen. I realize that the D is happening, but I am struggling with moving on. I know that I must make myself happy before I make anyone else happy, and I think I am slowly doing that. This weekend was great, I went out friday night, went tailgating all day saturday and did some stuff around the house sunday. I am just having a really hard time coming to glimps that the woman I love doesnt love me and I really dont know where to start to begin all over again. I know that 180's help but it just seems like im stuck.
