Mojo I can't get over my almost 20 years of conditioning that trained me to believe that male sexual desire is a scarce resource.
I am in the same boat. I "READ" about woman liking sex but it seems like that is in another land.

when I deposit enough "sexy" into my account with him then it is "safe" for me to actually withdraw some sex...... I want to get a feel for what sort of exchange rate I might get before I make a run on the bank or something like that.
I suppose, I do something similar. When I rub BB's hair, back, and feet enough, then I feel I can make a sex-play withdraw.

Corri, the baking and math explanations works for me, but the zoo was interesting too.

Lou