Woohoo, locked my first thread. Been awhile since I've done that!

Anyway, last thread is here here.

Quick recap:

me: 27
xh: 31
DS: 13 months
started dating: June 2000
married: March 2002
sep#1: October 2003 (4 weeks? 6 weeeks?) (xow in here)
sep#2: March 2004 - ?? summer 04?? (about three months)
sep#3: July (?) 2006
D final: November 2006

I'm sure I could look up more accurate dates, but I find it interesting that I can't recall precisely anymore. Nor do I really care. I guess it says something about my having moved forward... \:\)

Separation #2 I used DB. Those threads are under a different user name. We reconciled. Between separations 2 and 3, life was good. Thought we had our issues worked out, I had actually finally fully moved past the whole affair mess. We decided to have a baby..and...surprise! xh never really finished his crisis.

A quick and easy (no lawyer) D, and a year later, we're still very close.

Journaling in the next post... \:\)


Azhira

my confusion