No thoughts on the above at all, Sandi?

as far as the last bit goes: yes of course you've "asked him before".

If you actually want him to CHANGE his behaviour, though.. he's not going to change it, until you ask him at least one more time, eh?

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle