foo... cool name BTW.. Yep... those are all calls of the WAS's.
Mine uses the cover of our separation (which she claimed started on my B-day!!) as justification of the A.
I've heard many, many times "He's not the cause of our bad M..." etc etc.
In truth.. they are correct. The OP are not the cause, and you'd do well to ignore him as much as possible. Trust me.. I feel your pain there. He is a symptom.. not a cause.
I also agree with Morgan.. you need to at the least figure out what your legal courses of action are.
