NEWBIES ! Hope - list of restored marriages !

[ACJ]

I keep coming here and reading these wonderful posts. I've taken the decision over the weekend to backtrack and agree to the D that H so desparately wants. I've done this b/c he is so horrible to our children (except S15) and I can't bear them to suffer in this way anymore. When your D17 tells you that she hates her father it is quite a powerful message that perhaps you are not doing what is right for them. I know I am not to blame for her feelings but she has clearly become embroiled in all that has been going on. I need my life back and she needs to find love for her father again.