I do think the process of losing my father has driven so much of my behavior, from confronting my marital prioblems to re-engaging in a career. And I think that's all right, as long as it's not solely pain that is driving all this, but the deisre to grow and bring out the best.
I miss him so much.
RJ, did I miss something important? The last I remember, your dad was in a nursing home... in fact, I was going to ask you how he was doing. How did I miss this... if you're saying he passed away... or is he still living, but you meant you "miss him" as he was? Sorry to be so dense, but please forgive me and bring me up to date.
I'm still waiting to hear from the ankle doctor. Hope to get in to see him today.