ya, SD is right about continuing a sort of detachment. It is different though when M. A big difference is the expressing yourselves with one another, either physically or verbally, and actually loving each other. Loving = giving. the more you give of yourself to someone, the more you are loving them. You'll just have to find that balance, like you tried to before, but you never really had that true detachment in the first place.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
