Yeah I know what you mean about expectations. I forget which book I was reading but the author said he has extremely low stress and one of the things that contributed to that is having no expectations. Obviously that's a bit harder to do given our situations.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.