H called me 15 times until he went through reception rather than my private line so that the call would come up as an unknown caller.
He called me to talk about xmas presents!! I wished him a happy birthday and he thanked me for the presents and said they were very nice.
He said he had called loads of times. I told him I was really busy and it wasn't always appropriate to take his call.
Then I had 2 emails. One to say he wouldn't ask me about work again (the events that were happening to prevent me from answering his calls were confidential and would have compromised me) and the second was to ask why i din't return the calls in my lunch break when I was quite. That would have been because I was on the boards.
I have since replied to his email and said that I would appreciate some respect when at work that I am busy, i'm quite prepared to talk about my day but in the evening not during the day, and if he wanted to know about my day then he could call me then. I said I respected that when he is teaching I don't interupt his work even if it were to be an emergency.
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07