Joie,

Yes my point is it felt really good to me to do that. And they did not have to come and say Thank you. I did it because it felt good. That is where I want to get back to with the "chores" around the house.
Somewhere along the way I got lost. WE (my W and I) got lost in the true meaning of being married.
One mistake I made is I thought of us as one. IN reality we it should have been two living with a common goal. We lost our individuality.
That is where GAL comes into play.

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know