hi LIN, my H and I were seperated for 5 mos he is still talking and probably seeing ow. H has been back home for the past 7 weeks. On fri. I went over to his apt that he still has, when he was at work and saw that ow is calling that phone 3 times a day. I thought he had stopped talking to her so this made me sad. I told H if I ever caught them talking or together it would be over. 2 mos.ago ow got her own apt. so they could meet there and they know I dont know where it is so I cant check up on him. I know until he gives up ow we cant work on our M. I think he is in a MLC. H wants to enjoy his family life but have her on the side. I know i have to GAL and focus on me and S. When will h wake up from the fog? m-47 h-49 s-13 m-19 yrs t-29 yrs