Truly Piecing once and for all!

[Heartbroken]

Hello Limbo,

I do not get a chance to check these boards on the weekends - especially with Retro taking most of Sunday...Sometimes I feel I am out here to much during the week anyways. This place is awesome but it can bring you down if sitch's are going badly. Last week was great for me out here - LoginName specifically (on your thread) helped me to really see my H's possible point of view.

We had a slight emotional breakdown on Friday eve - but that even helped me see that he does not want to quit trying and that he's not doing this just b/c I want him to.

We had our Retro session #2 last night and it was okay - we did not learn a whole lot - we already knew about our childhood history and our personality types. The second half got into a bit too much about religion and I hope this theme does not expand as we go further along. My H just starts to tune out the more they preach and if it gets to heavy with this emphasis he will not continue going...

Overall we had a good weekend - went out Saturday with parents from football and got a lot done at home. I told H as much pain as we are in that I am still in a way better place than last year at this time and he said he was too. So that's a positive. He is also starting to trust me more with communicating tough things he's afraid will just hurt me - so we are growing here. He has to remind me we need to dialogue and he did so every night last week - ANOTHER positive. So the baby steps at least seem to be forward (at least for this past week).

Please let me know how you are doing!! Have a great week!

HB