I was putting something away in my W's car last night and noticed a bag with some paperwork in it. Curiosity got the better of me, so I took a look at what it was. Turned out to be printouts of my DBing posts. I've been posting on here for months, but a few weeks ago had changed my account because I knew that she had been reading my posts. It was okay at the time, and I actually encouraged it, but decided it would be better to keep these posts a little more private.
So last night while watching TV, I asked her if she had been looking at my DBing posts recently. She said no. She had looked, and had noticed that I had stopped posting (with my other account) a couple of weeks ago. She figured I had changed my name, but said that she hadn't read anything new.
I confronted her about the paperwork in her car and that I knew she had been reading my recent posts at which point she got pretty mad. I thought that I hadn't posted anything from the home computer, but I guess I had since she was able to find the new posts from my history. (stupid me)
I don't remember the exact dialog, but she started talking about how this site makes her angry when she reads it and how the people on here come across as needy and desperate. We are clinging to false hopes and fueling each other's fires with our misguided advice. (Sara, she especially liked your recent post comparing new relationships to pretty, wrapped presents) She was also hurt by the terrible things that I said about her in my posts (I think I've been pretty light) and couldn't believe that I would say things about her like this...
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The want the instant gratification and are so self righteous about getting happiness at the expense of others.
She then mentioned the text messages that I saw the other day and said that it was just a friend from HS that talks to a couple of her other friends also from HS. She says there is no EA happening there, but doesn't expect me to believe her.
We talked a little about what the expectations are for the mediation tomorrow. She said she's waiting to see what the mediator has to say as far as splitting up assets. She seems surprised and hurt that I (and my family) might think that she will try and screw me financially. She simply wants for both of us to be happy.
