I asked my H last night about the significance of Dec. 15 - the date the OW stated in the email. He said that was the night of the Holiday party for my work last year. Ironically, it's where the pix of us was taken on my MySpace page. The affair was at a nice hotel and we got a room for the night.
I really wanted to have nice, romantic night. It had been a long time since we had one. But H got so drunk that he could not perform - at least that's what I thought at the time. He was 6 months in the A at that point so I think now that the performance issue and the drinking were because of that. We had a miserable night. I have since found out that he blamed it all on me. Told the OW all about it...
I asked him why she sent the email, what did she hope to accomplish? He said she is afraid of us having a nice night together. I said, well, she's too late, we've had many nice nights together the last couple of months. He agreed.
But one positive thing that came to me about this email that I didn't think of before ... at least it means he has not committed to her either.
I hope every one has a happy DB week! Hmmm ... 42 days to Christmas! I don't even want to think about that.
