I would db, but honestly I would also talk to a lawyer to see what your rights are here. you can usually get an initial consult for free. I'm really sad that she took the kids and all of your stuff like that. you don't have to act on anything, or even tell your wife you have done this, just get the information.
not sure if you have done this, but it might help with your GAL to check out other british ex-pats around you. here in the boston area there is a thriving population. I have a british friend who does a lot of stuff with them. it might help you feel a sense of "home" in a strange country.
good luck!
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