Built4speed I had a chance this weekend to read your entire thread. It left me wondering if the craziness you experienced made the situation easier or harder? In my situation, my W has done nothing crazy. There is nothing to get mad about, except she doesn't want to be married anymore. It makes it (at least for me) difficult to detach. I've thought to myself, what I would look for in a new spouse. I can't think of anything I'd change about my wife except her lack of desire to work on our marriage and keep our family together.
