You're a rock star, but then again you already knew that. Can't wait to see the pics!

BTW, this kind of detachment you have is about the same you need to keep even when your marriage is good. By that I mean that whatever H does, you have to keep it separate from you. Observe, enjoy or discard, and keep the focus on you. The only way it changes (I think) is by the way you're able to openly express your opinion and respond in kind--like a hug, or an ILY, or whatever.

Truly, I think not staying detached and focused on me is why I'm having such a tough time myself right now. Went out all weekend and GAL, and *I* feel better already.

Anyway, just wanted to tell you I can "feel" the energy you have, and it's good. Stay in that place. What H does or does not do is out of your hands and, really, has little or nothing to do with you anyway. Take care of you.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!