Regarding your separation, I think you are definitely on the right track! On your last thread, I posted:
"Nikki - Considering that H just gave you the ILYBNILWY bomb last month after all this time of piecing, it just seems that you need to do something decisive to take care of yourself. Whether its retrouvaile, separation, or ultimatum, it seems that otherwise the present situation will just erode your soul."
It just seems to me that what you need is the separation in order to give H the chance to experience his buried love for you and the possibility of loss. If you go through with the separation, IMHO you just might make it.
LL
Larry
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread
