I'm starting to feel like Norm. Three threads locked.. wow.
Anywho.. hope you all are having a WONDERFUL weekend.
Mine has been OK.
SEMPER FIDELIS MARINES!!! Happy 232nd B-day. (Easy for me to remember the age.. it's 200 years older than me!!)
So last night W calls. I was tired, so I had turned in early. I know W was checking up on me, but it was nice. We had some OK conversation. Mostly about D3's B-day party. I finally asked who was coming. She said that OM's kids would, but it depends on whose weekend if OM would be there or not. I told her I needed to know because I would like to have a friend there to keep me cool. She actually went off on how I needed to think about D3 and not cause drama. This lady is nuts.
I told her that she needed to look at it from my perspective.. how would she feel if I brought a GF. No answer.
Anyway.. she called this morning.. again.. mostly small talk. She is taking D's to the aquarium today.. she asked if I wanted to give her some money for a souvenir? ??
-------------- The Forlorn Hope:...A picked body of men detached to the front to begin the attack....Fortified, meaning strengthened to stand...and thus, positioned for victory
Happy 232rd birthday!!! We cut a cake and honored it on Thursday at the office.
I still am in awe that your W expects you to be hunky dory about even OM's kids being around, much less him! I am sorry about that. You know what the day is for, you will be the strong one, and then have a nice BIG drink after the party. Super HUGS.
Thank you to all who have or is serving in our Armed Forces.
You folks are truly my heroes!!!
So.. somewhat of a crappy day yesterday. My Buckeyes showed their true colors yesterday!!!
The other night when W and I were having a good conversation, I told her I missed her. I knew as soon as I said it that I shouldn't have. She responded with "really..."
So.. last night I called D's and of course they were at OM's.
The D's didn't want to talk.. I told W that I really didn't like calling with them around because of that. She really didn't have an answer.
So as we are talking she says "Did you really mean what you said last night?" I asked "What?" She says "What you said last night" Me: "What that I missed you?" She: "Yeah.." Me: "Of course" She: "OK.. good"
So.. later on, I texted her and playfully asked if it meant that she missed me. She replied "I can't answer" Me: "Really? WOW.. OK" Me: "So why did you ask?" Nothin..
Me: "Whatever.. you are truly amazing. Have a good night"
About an hour later
She: "That hurt! I'll talk to you tomorrow. Tell everyone I say hey!"
Me: "Whatever.. I'm sure it didn't. Have a good night. I'll call the girls at 6 tomorrow."
Nothin.
Nothing today.
I'm tired of her playing me.. I'm tired of having feelings for her when it's obvious she doesn't have any for me.
Wow, jar, she is a piece of work. At first, I got happy that she was happy you missed her. That maybe she was thinking "Oh thank goodness its not too late", but later, it feels like she was playing games. I am so sorry.
I disagree, there are still feelings for you there, they are buried, pushed down to justify what she is doing. The question is (for all of us), will you still want her when she finally realizes what a big mistake she has made. UGH
I was happy too.. I wonder who she said was texting her?
I wonder if she lies to him like she did to me. It was always her friend that was texting her.. I knew better.
It definitely feels like a game. It feels like she's saying "OK.. you're still there"
I know there are feelings... it's a shame that we have to move on.
Wow.. watching "We were soldiers".. towards the end when Mel Gibson comes home and his wife gives him a HUGE hug and kiss.. then yells.. "Kids... your daddy is home"
Again.. D's aren't really interested in talking to me.
I'm really starting to get angry.. W has the nerve to say that it's the same when she calls.. funny thing is.. there is no distraction. It's her and the D's.
I couldn't take much... she was making dinner at OM's house. She acted like there was nothing wrong and got mad when I was oviously upset.
What is wrong with this woman?
Oh.. I've not snooped in a while, but I had sent her an email earler today relating to D3's bday and I wanted to see if she checked it. Well... BF sent her a thing where Optimus Prime is talking to her.. basically it states the Autobots are working against the decepticons and her BF OM has sent her this warning.. she needs to warn everyone except her spouse "me".
I swear.. it said the words boyfriend and spouse and had our names.
If I were you I would cut off contact with her. If I called I would only ask to speak to the kid's. Then hang up when your done. I wouldn't do any special favors for her. She can't play you if you don't allow it. I guess kind of going dark.
She has a lot of nerve to be acting this way. She seems to play you a lot. I am sorry she is being so hurtful and disrespectful. I wonder how she would like it if you took the girl's to a female's house.
I have to agree. Need to cut those contacts with her - talk to the D's and leave her hanging. If she has something that MUST be discussed, fine, otherwise keep it between you and your kids.
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EA confirmed: 9/13/07 D-Bomb: 9/19/07 OM Gone since 12/18/07 W wants to fix marriage: 3/16/07
