Seew,

I was in your shoes. Sex great for 6 months then I went throuh a 2 year hell.

To summarize we tried counseling (24 sessions), scheduled sex (1 / week), talking, talking and I read the No More Mr. Nice Guy book. Read It.

I split with her. It was for the best as she has work to do on her own. I need someone that fits with me as you do.

Hang in there buddy! Get tough, but gentle and firm.