Not surprising that your H said ILY. As was pointed out (by OT, I think), he is gonna be into you and the R now that you've provided that distance he is comfortable with.
Stay strong for yourself.
Can you share with us a little about what it looks like for you to make the move to your room? You know, you *can* keep working on "finishing" it while you sleep there at night. You've got the bed. Do you want or need any help preparing for your H's reaction?
You are in the driver's seat, and handling things well. Keep both hands on the wheel and keep your eyes on the road up ahead.
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.