I would bet she will call me this week while I am work as it is "safer" for her that way.
That sounds like a pretty good prediction. Does she never email you? I'd think that would be easiest (for her). If she does call, I hope it goes well. What kind of legal timeline are you on?
Originally Posted By: CVA
She asked me basically to babysit Wed night for her night out with her girlfriends.
Pet peeve of mine: You're not the babysitter, you're the father.
Originally Posted By: CVA
I am sure everyone will then know she filed and I will get the pitiful, "hi CVA, how are you doing" from her friends. Eff that, I'm fine, maybe u should ask her that.
This was a tough one for me: feeling pitied. Sounds like you've got your PMA on, though, and of course, who cares what they think?
Originally Posted By: CVA
Everything is just as is at dinner and she even watched a TV show w/ me tonight, didn't ask me, just sort of sat down with the presumption I wanted to as well. I did want to see the show and since I don't have Tivo at the apt, I stayed.
Interesting. Was this a new thing for her? Would it have been a new thing for you to leave? I'm thinking about the old space issue, and her never really having gotten much of that from you. Sounds like she initiated, though.
Originally Posted By: CVA
if she wants everyoÀne to go to dallas S9 (soon to be 10) will say no, wants to stay with Dad, well welcome to Divorceland. He'staying..
Oh boy. This stuff is so loaded. I hope everything goes well. I agree with you: the kids should definitely have a say in what they're doing. I have to admit, though, that I'm afraid when we tell the kids and I'm leaving to do something, they'll want me to stay. Not sure what I plan to do about that, if it arises.
