Dave-- I think it is such a good thing that you can at least be around her and still have those same feelings of "whatever." I can't stay at "whatever" even when I don't see or talk to him. Just having a bit of a down day, I guess, partly because I am cleaning the house and thinking of all the crap I now have to do alone, on top of all the other stuff I always had on my plate. Thanksgiving is getting to me a bit, too, I think.
If you can channel some of that "whatever" my way, I would surely appreciate it. I know that my downs are MUCH more short-lived and shallow, so the bright time should be right around the corner. Maybe a 1/2 nap...