More complicated than I imagined...

[Michael Mc C]

I can see that as a possibility. She usually knows everything that's going on and suddenly feels removed.

It's 2:30 on Sunday afternoon now and she hasn't called at all. The fact that I am aware of this makes me feel that I'm being needy but I think, in all honesty, that if things were good with us, she would have called this morning to say hi and to let me know what the plan was for the rest of the day - i.e., do I include her in dinner plans or not, do I need to get the kids' stuff together for school (kids usually do that themselves), etc.

I guess she's either testing me to see if I'm going to call first or it simply hasn't crossed her mind, for whatever reason.
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The boy and I had a pretty good time last night. He wanted to sleep in my room last night but I wasn't ready to go in when he was. So we put in a couple of movies and sat on the couch watching, and eating cheese balls.

This morning, in fact, he said "I guess I can't have cheese balls for breakfast..." I said "Why not, we're MEN, we eat whatever we WANT for breakfast" - in a fake, macho voice, so he picked up on the joking.

So we had cheese balls for breakfast, followed by some oatmeal.

Ahh, male bonding. We'll have to do this more often.