Hello, it's hard to know where to begin, but here goes. My fiancee and I have lived together for about 2 years. Our sex life was excellent for about 1 year of that time. As we continue our life together, there has been a noticable drop in her sex drive. She hasn't initated sex in a long time, and shows little interest in it anymore. I always have to initiate it, and most of the time I get shot down. I have to be persistent and almost beg for it. She tells me that my timing is bad, but I have tried it at all different times of the day, morning/night. I have tried to explain to her over and over that having sex with her is how I stay connected and loved. She says she understands, but doesn't really take any action. We are currently having sex about once a week, and that is only if I am persistent about it. I would like to have it every day, but am more than willing to meet at the middle and do 2-3 times a week. She makes light of the fact that sex is how I connect with her, she thinks I'm just a horny typical guy, and this kind of thinking really frustrates me. I've been trying to get her to read the SSM book, but she will only read a few pages, then it collects dust for a few months. I'm so tired of resenting her, and not getting anything accomplished. I don't want to leave her because I love her, but I don't know if I can marry her and live like this the rest of my life. I feel like I'm in a prison.
