On the day he told me he wanted to leave I said you either stay and work at it or go and then thats it. He said he would think about it and let me know in a couple of days. Of course the next day I was a mess. Then that night I said I want your decision now. Either stay and try or go. And of course he went.
He is coming back to see the kids. However this week I have taken them to his Mums where he is staying for them to visit him. Reality check. He cried apparently both nights when I collected them.
He came to our house last night to have them over night whilst I stayed at his Mum's. When he came all he asked about was the credit card and there balances. This morning he was just telling me about where he has been and what he has been up to. Just said oh right ok etc etc.
He is now not having them until Tuesday night at his Mum's again and then Thursday night here and Saturday over night at his Mums and Sunday day.
All our families and friends no now.
I am just after advice on what to do now and if anyone has been through the same and come out the other side together.
